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PURPOSE OF JALSA SALANA
- This is NOT A FESTIVAL but a Jama'at
convention. Do not think that you are participating in a festival
and do not waste your time in personal
meetings or in buying or selling or showing off the latest fashions.
- Greet
each other with smiles. If you had any hard feelings, end them
with smiles in these three days. Secondly, spread the good deeds and
urge others to perform good deeds and tell them to desist from
bad
practices. After all, that is the prime purpose of Jalsa Salana.
Those who come
to attend Jalsa, must participate in it fully and instead of
roaming about aimlessly, they should derive the maximum benefit from
the
programme.
- Care should be taken that the ladies and the children sit and
listen to the Jalsa proceedings quietly and try to derive the maximum
benefit
from it.
BLESSINGS OF JALSA
- Ahmadis from the UK should
participate in the Jalsa with full zeal and vigour. This is YOUR Jalsa
Salana. Do not be absent without any
valid objection. Some people only come for one day instead of all
three days and then their objection is to meet friends rather than
gain the
blessings of the occasion. If the blessings of Jalsa are kept in
mind, then attendance on all three days is essential. Listen to the
speeches
and other programmes in silence paying full attention. Do not waste
this precious time.
ADVICE FOR HOSTS
- On some rare occasions some local drivers offer a
lift to the guest in their car and then demand money. This is against
the spirit of hospitality
and people should refrain from this practice.
- To honour and serve
our guests should be our aim and we should serve them with love
and sincerity and in a spirit of sacrifice.
ADVICE FOR GUESTS
- Guests should remember that all these arrangements
are temporary. The volunteers work very hard to serve the guests,
but occasionally there
is any shortfall, it should be overlooked.
- If any guests find a
shortfall, they should gently draw attention to it to the workers.
There is no need to get angry. The arrangements
are
large scale and there are bound to be some deficiencies. They
should be tolerated and ignored.
ADVICE FOR WORKERS
- Treat your fellow workers with respect and honour;
and perform all your duties together in an atmosphere of love and
friendship.
- The
hosts must perform their duties of hospitality with pleasant manners
and continue to do so as long as the hospitality period continues.
It
is not commendable that the workers disappear immediately after
the Jalsa is over and those in charge are left in embarrassment. Perform
your duties
diligently and honestly.
- Similarly, if the workers find a guest angry,
they should apologise politely and try to remove and solve his
difficulty. Remember! you
should never speak to your guests harshly or discourteously.
ETIQUETTES OF THE MOSQUE
- Remember the etiquette and sanctity of the
place in and around the mosque. Since all arrangements during the Jalsa
are being made in Islamabad,
the marquees serve as mosques. Therefore, remember to observe the
sanctity of the mosque in there.
ETIQUETTES OF THE PRAYER
- Jalsa days should be spent in the remembrance
of Allah, reciting 'Durood' (invoking the blessings of Allah upon
His Holy Prophet) and regular
performance of Salat. The guests have come from far and wide.
If they do not perform Salat regularly and at their appointed times,
they
will
lose the real purpose of their coming to Jalsa. Similarly, in
such places as the kitchen where it is difficult for the workers to
leave,
arrangements should be made so that they can perform their Salat
in their place of duty. This is the responsibility of those who are
in charge of those areas.
- Sometimes, children start crying during the
Salat, this naturally diverts the attention of the others and spoils
their prayers. The
parents, whether
father or mother, should take the child away for the sake of
others.
- Fathers
or mothers with very young children should not try to occupy the
front rows during Salat. They should sit in the back row so that
if need be, they can leave.
MOBILE PHONES
- Please switch off your mobile (handy/cell) phones during
the prayers. Some people have the habit of bringing in their phones
and leaving
them switched on. When the phones begin ringing, it causes a
great deal of disturbance to the worshippers.
ETIQUETTES OF CONVERSATION
- Refrain from meaningless talk. Conversation
should be carried out in low voice and with due respect. Acrimonious
talk should be avoided.
- Some people talk loudly and in querulous tones
as a matter of habit or sit in groups and indulge in loud laughter.
Try to avoid these practices
as much as you can during these three days. In fact avoid these
altogether. This is not considered a good habit anyway.
DISCIPLINE
- Please avoid making too much noise in the narrow lanes in
and around Islamabad. It is important for the guests from outside
to remember
that they should not think that this place is uninhabited. There
are some residents; unnecessary noise can cause disturbance to them.
- Be
mindful of all the discipline and arrangements and co-operate and
abide fully with the instructions given by workers on duty.
CLEANILESS
- During the Jalsa, some children and adults throw litter
on the grounds and pathways. Irrespective of whose duty it is,
whosoever notices any
litter should pick it up and deposit it in the litterbins or
boxes provided for this purpose. Both guests and hosts should keep
the
site free of litter.
- There are simple etiquettes of cleanliness. Remember
to keep the toilets clean, after all cleanliness is part of our
faith.
l In this environment, we must always keep in mind the cleanliness
of the premises. Do not provide any opportunity of complaint
to those on
duty. Put it in the forefront of your mind that come what may
we have to maintain cleanliness.
ADVICE FOR WOMEN
- Ladies are advised that they should take care not to
roam around aimlessly. However, those ladies who are not Ahmadis
and do not observe Purdah,
they should only be requested to do so. There is no need for
force or coercion. If there is some Ahmadi who has a difficulty to
cover
her face, she should wear minimum and simple make-up. Spread
the habit of keeping your head covered. It should be remembered that
we are
spending
our time in a spiritual environment during these days. We should
not try to find excuses not to observe Purdah. It is a different
matter if there is a genuine reason. Even then the minimum norms of
Purdah
should be observed.
- Do not be oblivious of what was said in the speeches
and what tarbiyyat programmes were discussed.
ETIQUETTES OF FOOD
- It has been observed that a lot of food is wasted
during these days. It is generally a good practice to take only
so much in the plate as
you can finish and thus waste nothing. Teach the same to your
children. We should not be guilty of bad manners that may affect others.
It
is also observed that food is wasted by the consumers and not by
those serving. Please avoid this practice.
- Demand only as much food as
you can consume. However, those on duty are instructed that they
should never refuse anyone who wants
food. If
they see someone wasting the food he should be gently reminded
about this fact but no worker is expected to use hard words or rude
language
with guests. Explain gently that once you finish, you can have
a second helping.
- Some guests leave their dirty plates on the table
and do not deposit them in the waste-bins that are provided. It requires
only a small effort on
the part of each guest. Dirty plates lying around look untidy, are unhygienic
and add to unnecessary work for volunteers already under pressure when
they can gainfully be employed elsewhere.
ADVICE REGARDING BAZAAR
- Another important matter to note is that the
Bazaar remains closed during the Jalsa proceedings. The guests should
be aware of this and
not force the shop owners to open their shops for them or sit there.
TRAFFIC
- When parking your cars, make sure you do not park in front
of entrances to other people's houses and do not park in places
where parking is
forbidden either near Fazl Mosque or in Islamabad.
- Observe the traffic
rules and co-operate fully with the parking teams.
- Never commence your
journey if you are tired or if you are not feeling well. Always
have rest and start your journey relaxed and
refreshed.
SECURITY
- It is important that for the sake of security, you remain
watchful all the time. Be vigilant and if you notice a stranger,
inform the
relevant department immediately. It is not advisable to interfere
yourself personally.
- The best way to be watchful is to keep a sharp look
out around yourselves on those who are not familiar to you. This
is the best
security for Jama'at
Ahmadiyya.
- When entering Islamabad, present yourselves voluntarily
to the relevant staff for checking.
- Always keep your identity card prominently
visible. If you notice someone without the card, remind him politely
to display his card.
- Take special care of your valuables and cash.
This is your own responsibility. The organisers cannot be held responsible
for any loss.
ADVICE REGARDING VISA
- Please observe the other laws of this country during
your stay here. Make sure that you leave this country before your visit
visa expires.
Those who obtained the visa to come to Jalsa must utilise the entry
clearance for the Jalsa alone strictly.
PRAYER
- Most important are supplications and prayers to Allah. Remember
to put great emphasis on your prayers, when starting your journey,
coming to Jalsa and during travels.
(Friday Sermon 18th July 2003, Published
in Al-Fazl International 12th September 2003)
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